GUIDANCE SERMON
[SLIDE – Our Plans,
God’s Plans]
This morning we’re thinking
about guidance, life choices, decisions, our plans and God’s plans.
We’re living in an
interesting time with regards to choice.
Our culture is always telling us that our choices make us who we
are. Is that true? Well I guess I could tell you some of
the story of my life by telling you the choices I’ve made. I decided to go to university. I decided to marry Emma. I decided to go into church work. But that doesn’t tell the whole of my
story. Not at all. What about the bits I didn’t decide. You see my parents never decided to
have me – I was an accident (as they would always remind me). But I’d always console myself by
thinking ‘I never decided to have you either.’ And I didn’t. I never decided to be born in the 20th
century in the West. I never
decided to grow up in Canberra. I
never decided all sorts of things that have made me who I am. And that’s not even to mention the
hundreds of decisions I tried to make happen but failed. Those failures have made me the person
I am too. As we think about
making right choices, let’s relax a bit.
Our choices are important but they are not the whole story. Didn’t John Lennon say ‘Life’s what
happens to you while you’re busy making plans’?
This morning we’re
going to think about three mistakes you can make when you think about
guidance.
[SLIDE – Three
mistakes]
As we look at the
teaching of Proverbs we’ll hopefully address those three mistakes.
The first mistake is
to think that our choices make us who we are.
[SLIDE – ‘what we
choose => who we are’]
That’s what the
culture says. The culture says
‘Choose this, make this plan, take this path then you’ll be a
significant person.’ What we
choose makes us who we are.
The second mistake is
what I call the ‘tight-rope walker’ approach to guidance.
[SLIDE - tight-rope
walkers]
The tight-rope walkers
think that there is one right path and at any minute you might put a foot
wrong and fall off God’s will for your life. Guidance then is about making sure you get the one right
decision in every circumstance and sticking to that.
Then the third mistake
is what I call ‘the boundary keepers’ approach.
[SLIDE – boundary
keepers]
The boundary keepers
simply think that God has set limits ‘out there’ on your behaviour and as
long as you keep within the boundaries you don’t need to bother Him and
He ought not to bother you. The
you can get on and make your own decisions thank you very much.
Ok do you have these
three types of mistakes in your head?
Do you identify with any of them?
All of them?
Well let’s look at
number one.
What we choose leads
to who we are. Now maybe you
think this one is not a mistake.
Maybe you think that actually life is all about making right
choices so that you become the right kind of person.
Actually a superficial
reading of Proverbs might give you that impression. You see Proverbs is full of
sayings. And a good number of
these sayings go something like this:
‘A wise person does this which is good, but a foolish
person does that which is bad.’
And you read 31 chapters of this and you go away thinking that the
world is divided up according to how wise or foolish our choices
are. It’s not quite like that.
If you read the book
carefully you’ll notice that fundamentally there’s only One wise
person. A Person called
Wisdom. And actually there’s
fundamentally only one foolish person.
A person called Folly.
And these two people are two women who compete for the affections
of the whole human race. A good
place to see this is in chapter 9.
Why don’t you turn there now – page _____. Let’s read from v1:
Proverbs 9:1
Wisdom has built her house; she has hewn out its seven pillars. 2
She has prepared her meat and mixed her wine; she has also set her table.
3 She has sent out her maids, and she calls from the highest
point of the city. 4 "Let all who are simple come in
here!" she says to those who lack judgment. 5 "Come,
eat my food and drink the wine I have mixed. 6 Leave your
simple ways and you will live; walk in the way of understanding.
Ok so Wisdom is a Person
who has a house. And this house
is a place of feasting and joy.
Wisdom also has a message for all humankind – v4 ‘you’re simple
and you lack judgement.’ As far
as the Person called Wisdom is concerned we all have tremendous guidance
problems. But Wisdom calls to us
nonetheless to join her in her house and enjoy life and the way of
understanding. Fundamentally
there’s only one Wise Person. But
this Wise Person has a house that we can belong to – a house where
there’s true life and true understanding.
Now Folly is another
person with another house and we meet her in v13:
13
The woman Folly is loud; she is undisciplined and without knowledge. 14
She sits at the door of her house, on a seat at the highest point of the
city, 15 calling out to those who pass by, who go straight on
their way. 16 "Let all who are simple come in here!"
she says to those who lack judgment. 17 "Stolen water is
sweet; food eaten in secret is delicious!" 18 But little
do they know that the dead are there, that her guests are in the depths
of the grave.
So the woman called
Folly is also calling out. She
also assumes that people are basically simple (v16). And she wants people to join her in her
house. So we’ve got two women
calling us to two different houses.
The house of Wisdom is a house of feasting and joy. The house of Folly is a house of death
and judgement. Now whether you
are called wise or foolish, whether you end up at the feast or at the
judgement depends on which Person you belong to. Are you in relationship with Wisdom,
or are you in relationship with Folly?
Proverbs is clear that
naturally, we are in a relationship with Folly. We are by nature fools.
Proverbs 22 says ‘Folly (foolishness) is
bound up in the heart of a child.’
We are born deeply foolish. Not just intellectually – spiritually foolish. We naturally belong to the woman
called Folly. Which means if you
haven’t switched sides, you’re still in the house of Folly. That is not a place you want to be,
that is a place without understanding, a place on the way to death and
judgement.
But you needn’t belong
to that house. Because Wisdom
calls out to you.
Let’s see it again in
chapter 8 (p_____):
Proverbs 8:1 Does not wisdom call out? Does not
understanding raise her voice? 2 On the heights along the way,
where the paths meet, she takes her stand; 3 beside the gates
leading into the city, at the entrances, she cries aloud: 4
"To you, O men, I call out; I raise my voice to all mankind. 5
You who are simple, gain prudence; you who are foolish, gain
understanding.
Wisdom pleads with us in the midst of our
busy lives. Do you see in v2 she goes to the cross-roads where people’s
paths come together and diverge.
In the midst of all the decisions we have to make, the Person
called Wisdom stands above them all and says ‘whatever else you get, get
Me. Whatever you choose, choose Me.’
If you want riches, get Wisdom she’s better than any riches. If you want a spouse, get Wisdom –
she’s like the ultimate spouse.
Whatever your plans are in life, make plans with Wisdom.
Well who is Wisdom. Let’s look on in the chapter. From v27, Wisdom says…
27
I was there when the LORD set the heavens in place, when he marked out
the horizon on the face of the deep, … (look down to v30)
30
Then I was the craftsman at his side. I was filled with delight day after
day, rejoicing always in his presence, 31 rejoicing in his
whole world and delighting in mankind.
This Person called
Wisdom is older than the universe, is the Craftsman of all creation, and the
One filled with joy at God’s side.
Wisdom is an infinitely happy and powerful divine Person. A Person who comes down into our world
and calls to us to leave the house of Folly and to listen.
Friends, standing over
and above the cross-roads of your life is Jesus Christ. Jesus is the infinitely old,
infinitely happy and infinitely powerful divine Person, the Craftsman of
all creation (as we learnt at the beginning of our servive. He is the One who comes down into our
world and calls us to belong to Him.
He called to people throughout the Old Testament, including here
in Proverbs. And He came in the
flesh in the New Testament to raise His voice and call us to Himself.
Listen to His call from
v32 – Jesus Christ speaks to each of us here this morning – over and
above all the choices we have to make:
"Now then, my sons, listen to me; blessed are those who keep
my ways. 33 Listen to my instruction and be wise; do not
ignore it. 34 Blessed is the man who listens to me, watching
daily at my doors, waiting at my doorway. 35 For whoever finds
me finds life and receives favour from the LORD. 36 But
whoever fails to find me harms himself; all who hate me love death."
In the midst of all
your decisions, Jesus Christ says ‘Listen to me, find me, watch for me,
wait for me.’ To find Jesus is to
find life. Life
doesn’t come in those plans you’ve been making – life comes in belonging
to Jesus Christ.
When you belong to
Jesus, when you switch over from the house of Folly, you start (in
Proverbs 9 terms) feasting with Jesus, enjoying His friendship and you
start listening to Him and (v33) as you listen to His instruction you
become wise.
Do you see what has
happened – you’ve come to Wisdom, you now belong to the house of Wisdom
and then you start being wise.
And wise people start to make wise decisions.
Do you see how mistake
number one is really a mistake.
We think we can become wise people by choosing the right
paths. And we can’t – we are
fools, we are simpletons and the paths we choose will only end in death
and judgement. Wisdom calls out
to us over and above all our decisions and says “Come to Me.” Become wise by coming to Jesus – then
you will start to act wise.
So it’s not “make
right choices so you become a right person” – it’s “become a right person
in Jesus Christ. Then you’ll start to make right choices.”
[SLIDE – cross out
wrong, put in right]
Now if you’re not yet
a Christian I hope you see what this means to you. Jesus calls out to you and says ‘Stop
going your own way.’ There’s a
proverb in chapter 28 that says this:
[SLIDE – Proverbs
28:26]
Proverbs 28:26
whoever trusts in themselves is a fool, but the one who walks in wisdom
is kept safe.
A fool is just a
person who trusts in themselves – who relies on their own strength, their
own decision making, their own plotting and planning and strategising to
make life work. If you rely on
yourself to get through life and not on Jesus Christ, the bible would say
you’re a fool.
When I became a
Christian perhaps the biggest difference I noticed was realising that I
was wrong about stuff. Every day
almost I’d discover something new that I was wrong about. Me!
Wrong! It was an
incredible revolution. (I
remember before I was a Christian an old girlfriend of mine, whenever we
got into a fight, at some point she’d cry out in exasperation ‘Oh Glen,
you’re always so…. Right!’ And of
course I’d say ‘uh-huh… which makes you…!’ I’m sure God made me a
Christian just to get back at me.) Every day ‘wrong again!’ It really
hurt, but throughout Proverbs Jesus keeps saying ‘you’re wrong, you’re
foolish. But listen to me, come
into my house. Eat and drink with me.
Learn from me. I’ll guard
you, I’ll keep you, just stop trusting yourself.’ There are people here this morning who
need to do that.
But this also has
application for people who are already Christians. Do you realise that if you trust
Jesus, you are already in the house of Wisdom. And that means you already have the resources to make wise
choices. Let me tell you about
three resources that every member of the house of Wisdom has.
[SLIDE - ________]
The Craftsmanship of
Jesus
The Teaching of Jesus
The People of Jesus
First you have the
Craftsmanship of Jesus. Jesus is
the Craftsman of Creation (that’s what Proverbs 8 calls Him). He is the Craftsman of Creation, the
Craftsman of History and the Craftsman of your life story. He rules over all your plans and all
your failures and He will make something cool out of them.
Proverbs is full of
this theme. Have a look at these
verses:
[SLIDE – verses]
Proverbs
16:33 The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the
LORD.
Proverbs
19:21 Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose
that prevails.
Proverbs
21:30 There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against
the LORD.
We have plans. The LORD has a good purpose. And these verses tell us, whether I
simply cast lots (which is like tossing a coin) or whether I make a poor
choice, or even if I make a wicked choice, you’re not going to muck up
God’s good purpose. Relax a bit.
Trust Jesus, who is a good Craftsman, He can turn even terrible
choices into something great. You
might not see it for years, you might not see it until you’re face to
face with Him, but He will craft something terrific out of even our
stupidest mistakes.
Second, the Teaching
of Jesus. You’re in the house of
Wisdom and Wisdom teaches you stuff.
(We’ve got bibles and we’ve got church and sermons) This stuff is
meant to inform and guide you. We
see this throughout Proverbs, here’s one example.
[SLIDE – verse]
Proverbs
6:20-23 My son, keep your father's commands and do not forsake your
mother's teaching. Bind them upon your heart for ever; fasten them around
your neck. When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep,
they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you. For
these commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the corrections
of discipline are the way to life,
The teaching that we
get will guide us. It will inform
our thinking. It won’t tell us
directly to ‘take this job’ but the longer we’ve been in the house of Wisdom,
the more Wisdom’s teaching will shape our motivations and define our
goals in life. More and more as
we sit under this teaching we’ll be equipped to make wise choices.
Thirdly, the People of
Jesus. This is all over
Proverbs. Here’s a sample of verses:
[SLIDE – verses]
Proverbs
13:20 He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools
suffers harm.
The more time you
spend with other members of the house of Wisdom, the wiser you will
become.
Proverbs
15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they
succeed.
Do you talk over your
big decisions with mature Christian friends? If not, why not – look at the next verse…
Proverbs
18:1 An unfriendly man (a man who separates off from others) pursues
selfish ends; he defies all sound judgment.
If you want to go off
and make a decision on your own, it’s going to be a selfish decision and
a stupid one. If it’s not
something you want other Christians to know about, it is definitionally a
foolish plan. Jesus has given us
each other as counsellors, so let’s use one another.
So we can make wise choices if we belong to Jesus
Christ because He is Wisdom and we become wise in relationship
with Him. And Jesus’
Craftsmanship, His teaching and His people are given to us so we can make
more and more wise choices.
Finally and very
briefly. What do we think about
these last two mistakes? Are you
a tight-rope walker or a boundary keeper?
The tight-rope walker
thinks there’s one path for them and any minute they might put a foot wrong
and fall off God’s will for their life.
The boundary keeper thinks anything goes so long as you keep
within the rules. They’re both
wrong. Let’s look at one final
verse – perhaps the most famous passage from Proverbs:
[SLIDE – verse]
Proverbs
3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own
understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your
paths straight.
Let me take you
through this verse. Trust in the
LORD. Don’t trust in yourself. We
are fools, we mustn’t trust in our wisdom or our ability to navigate
through life. Trust in the LORD
and not with the fear of the tight-rope walker or the detachment of the
boundary keeper. Trust in Him
with all your heart – have heart-felt affection for this LORD who has brought
you into His house in order to give you feasting and true life. Don’t lean on your own understanding,
we’re naturally foolish, we all need to begin again with the teaching of
Jesus. And then, I love the
second sentence there. In all
your ways acknowledge Him. You see we do have different ways that
we can travel on, and they are truly our ways – so the tight-rope
walker is wrong. But as we travel
on these different ways we are to acknowledge Him. Literally that word is ‘to know’
Him. Whatever path we take we are
to walk it with the LORD.
Take the job, don’t take it. Marry the person, don’t marry them
but whatever you do, know the LORD. And then the promise ‘He will make your paths
straight.’ That doesn’t mean
it’ll be easy. A straight path
can take you straight through a dark forest or straight into the path of
a roaring lion. But the thing
about a straight path is, you can see the end. And the end, for someone who belongs to Wisdom is life and
a feast that will make all our journeys worth the trouble.
Proverbs
3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own
understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your
paths straight.
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